I think the dude is getting it twisted. Most people would look at her as a chick, BUT YOU KNOW ITS A GUY and STILL want it.
Thats the difference. You're arguing that it's not gay to get a handjob OFF A GUY.
That is gay. No way around it, you know it's a guy and you want HIM rubbing you up.
Sorry, but you're a homo.
Teachin Da SeedZ