Originally Posted by Blunt-head Paco
having a kid without the financial support for it would also be tough on the kid too
Yes. Then the kid has to grow up in a horrible environment, attend a crappy school wearing crappy clothes (uniforms don't help). Homelessness off and on. The father is either in prison or in the streets. The mother is lazy and welfare dependent and talk smack about how she wishes she didn't have kids (bitches). If the kid makes it out of the place he/she is living (it could be a shelter, a house, an apartment), that'd be good.
People who seriously screw up in life have an excuse but often times, their childhood troubles are overlooked. People'll frown their faces and say ignorant things, as if they have any clue. Fat people!