Don`t live life by other people`s expectations.
Realize that these social structures are garbage and reject as much of it as possible. Have your own mind. If your city is bs, try to leave. Mentally disassociate from the bs.
Believe it or not, lobster and crabs are crustaceans and are a part of the arthropod family, which include caterpillars, cockroaches, and spiders!
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