Sunny has a point. I've come to realize that black women aren't the problem, it's us as black men who are the problem. If women have good men then she would naturally follow her man. The guy in the video is emotional. I was emotional before but I'm not anymore.
If a woman sees that you're about business and not bullshit, she will respect you. Some will, some won't. If you don't find what you're looking for, move on but choose wisely. Learn to grow.