Originally Posted by Tectrus Moa
Most people only see black men in one way, and that way isn't very motivating.
Not all black chicks are pretend-to-be-strong women, some are good but they need guidance. The truth is that we are constantly challenged and not trusted as black men. As a result, we have to PROVE ourselves of our own worth but that isn't enough. So, the hate is still there.
Why do they need constant assurances? Is it because they are well adjusted and mentally balanced? If you prove that you are a good man and you are still treated like an enemy, maybe you should not even consider them for a relationship. Maybe the problem is with them.
Try to find a person who is not as damaged. A person who is not a cynic and a skeptic and narrow minded (those things are big in the black community). Try to find somebody who will love you for who you are, and not somebody who cannot even see you cuz they may be blinded by skin colour and other stuff.