the best porn, imo, is when both/all parties look like they're enjoying it. you can tell they're enjoying it by the way they look at and touch each other. watching someone getting choked/beaten is not what i call enjoyment, it's abuse and yes some people will find enjoyment in abuse, but not me.
lesbians actually look like they enjoy fucking each other, so depending on my mood i might even find watching them enjoyable. however, i would probably only watch lipstick lesbians and not real lesbians.
Yeah, I pretty much agree with what your saying. I think girls definatley sem to prefer working with other girls, I think they're probably all just lipstick lesbians though. Think the thing is with porn is there's only so much you can do with it and the only way forward these days seems to be to push it to be more extreme/violent.
I was just thinkin if you agree to it and your not really into it then its still got potential to be harmfull, you could be giving your partner unrealistic/idealistic expectations. ie because your cool with watching it then they may think the next step is to do it for real
I'm not really into watching or doing all of that super rough aggressive choking, mild beating type of stuff.
Although, sometimes if she's on top and we're really going at it then I'll ask her to slap me in the face, but that's my weird thing, I don't reciprocate the roughness.
But generally I really don't derive any pleasure from roughing a woman up, or seeing it on film either.
Unless that's the only way she can get off.
And if that's the case then there are much larger issues at hand.
just because it's two females on the screen doesn't mean i would want it to fuck a woman in real life. fingers and tongues aren't exclusive to women. what i see and what i imagine can be different things. like it might be a female's fingers/whatever but i will imagining a man's fingers/whatever.
I don't think anyone was assuming you wanted to fuck a female if you watch some lesbian porn with a guy, Trix.
There are some men who prefer to watch porn without bulging, veiny cock all over the screen.
Girl on girl stuff tends to be more sensual, highly arousing stuff for most males.
i've never seen a female orgasm for real in porn. if it happens then it's rare cos i've never seen it. the women fake their pleasure cos they are paid to look like they're enjoying it. i've only seen a few vids where both male and female look like they're into each other and really enjoy fucking. there isn't a lot of porn like that.
check Anna Span, she's a female porn director. there are others but i haven't checked them out yet. if i remember correctly there was one vid where a female pretends to be a nurse so she could take advantage of a male patient, i liked that one.
is she British? Sure Ive saw one of her films before and everyone was pretending to be charvas lol