i think men can learn a lot more about pleasuring women from watching lesbian porn.
i don't understand why porn has to involve violence, that kind of porn isn't about sex, that kind of porn is about abuse. i don't understand how people could get off on that shit. they watch it to see some woman get abused, humiliated and degraded that's gotta come from some deep hatred of women. there's role play and there's straight up abuse. some people refuse to see the difference.
That's true, it can be a learning tool of sorts.
I also learned a lot from a girl I was friends with who was a lesbian.
She shared a lot of tips with me on things that drive women wild, she read up on it a quite a bit.
Then I started to do the same, which proved invaluable.
I also ask what she likes and how.
My ego isn't so big that I won't ask for a quick tutorial if it's the first time with a new partner.