Loud hoodrat on cellphone asked if she could keep it down. This is her reaction:
I have a right to be upset with ANYBODY exhibiting poor behavior. By you agreeing that men should not be upset with anything women do, you show that you do not hold women accountable for their behaviour. You think women are not equal, so you hold them by different standards from men.Men have no right to be upset with their women. If we as black men cannot control nor provide for our women, what does that make us?
Control women? She is not a farm animal. She is a person with her own will. I do not control anybody. We should be able to communicate and agree or not and move from there.
As for providing. Ya we should be able to provide financial support, but this economy is messed up.
I know a guy who plays basketball in Dubai and he swears that he has to wear all kinds of ridiculous jewelry in order to separate himself from african workers. Arabs are racists like that.
Some ppl seem to mix nationalism and chauvinism, and i don't see nothing wrong in tribalism.
I just don't think it makes any sense to complain about your culture's women. In the end of the day their fathers are black, and if they don't like the situation they should stop being cowardly and absent. I don't know the rat ball bitches a lot of you wu niggas deal with but all of the black women in my life are normal and consistently single. Most of them are very good looking as well, but every black american man I know spends his day dick riding rappers and complaining about black women. In all honesty you deal with members of the opposite gender that are on your level. If you're looking for a girl that can read odds are your the last person your classmates want the teacher to call on during open reading. If all of the girls in your life act like animals you're probably an animal.
You could defend these "women" all you want. Black women are consistently single and the most unwanted women of all women. PERIOD!!!
I'm not defending anyone. It could have to do with the fact that their men are also the most single and unwanted group of men. Also the high incarceration, death, and drug addiction rates and consistent illegitimate impregnation of women tie into it. Again if your left hand is broken and your right hand is strong, you're still weak.
Black american men typically blame women for their problems with women which is fine but from the view of the rest of humanity, if your women are useless you're useless. Ironically more black women are employed college educated and reasonable from my own personal interactions than black men. The biggest issue a black woman with a degree has relationship-wise is finding a black man to match
There are black men to match them in education, but I doubt those black men are looking for black women.
Last edited by diggy; 04-14-2014 at 07:11 PM.
And as for the incarceration rates, of black men - that more of them are in prison than college - I made a thread in gen chat that shows that is a lie.
In regards to black men dating outside the race, good luck with that unless the women are fat. To nice looking non-black women, if a black man isn't a sports player, earning a good amount of money, black men aren't saying anything.
Ironman the issue is you have the brain of a 5 year old and woman don't like that. It has nothing to do with football
Diggy, I go to the black entrepreneurship seminars, meet ups, and networking events. I go to the class rooms. There's an unreasonably higher number of women than men.
@diggy, the incarceration rate is still ridiculous and skews the number of men to women in the free world. Well to do black men don't have to 'look for black women', but like I said originally black americans are the only humans alive that don't want their kids to look like them in overwhelming numbers. They weren't the only slaves either so they can't blame it on that and it has nothing to do with western ideals etc because asians aren't even on television.
It's really some weirdo shit, but I don't expect anyone to be able to think outside of the context they were born into.
Rent seeking in other people's (white) domain (schools, businesses, politics, women) is why at most these 'educated black men' can only be middle management. Why do you think they get the rejected schools, rejected jobs, rejected political platforms, and rejected women?
Every other group of humans is building it's collective self up while a lot of these 'educated black american men' are looking to be accepted in someone else's building.
This is why mexicans asians and hell even africans don't complain about racism the way black americans do. Because without white love, black americans would be dead due to their bizarre alternative view of survival. You can go to the same restaurant everyday and complain about the service or you can cook whatever it is you like there at home.
black people will mock the BET awards for example, despite it being higher rated and a bigger revenue earner than the grammies (which statistics say only black people watch), and flip out because they didn't 'win a grammy'. Why aren't why people angry that they aren't winning BET Awards? Why aren't asians and hispanics complaining? You think these white people are going to hand you their best shit or give you the control buttons -such as a grammy- of their own culture?
You can't openly say you don't have value for your own women. No group of people in the world do this, it's complete madness but if you can't see it than you can't see it.
If a kid is born what is the first thing people say?
"he has your eyes" "she has you nose"
this is human nature. What are you niggas telling each other?
"This one kinda looks like Nick Nolte"
Talking smack about how our women aren't anything isn't helping the situation. All of them aren't the same.
"Looking to be accepted in someone else's building"? That sounds funny coming from you, an immigrant who left Africa to come to America to live!!!