Get close.

Give it a little nibble on the ear lobe.

Let it come close.

Let it think it can get you.

Write ballads for your enemy.

Let it think that you don't know what's going on.

And when your enemy eventually fucks up (which it will), don't laugh at it.

Just pick your enemy up and show it the right way.

Maybe give it a familiar embrace.

Repeat as necessary.