What the hell should I do?

[check two]

I wouldn't wait around for a long time for her. Some girls like to take advantage of that. It was interesting that you said she wants to spend more time with her friends, and that her best friend is a girl. Cause I was thinking about a possible girl/girl thing going on there. There are a lot of girls that experiment nowadays. That's messed up that she never calls you, unless you call her first.

[arcane]

Word, especially because for several months preceding this whole episode, I spoke to her several times a day without fail. She would never have thought twice about calling.

[JASPER]

She probably wants to break up, but doesn't have to guts to tell you, so she tries to grow apart slowly or she's waiting for you to break up. Don't take my word for it though, cause I'm just some strange guy talking about sex with minors and have two dead exes

[GuardianOne]

Originally Posted by Jasper1134

She probably wants to break up, but doesn't have to guts to tell you, so she tries to grow apart slowly or she's waiting for you to break up. Don't take my word for it though, cause I'm just some strange guy talking about sex with minors and have two dead exes

You have painted a rosy picture for yourself (and her). It seems there is something the other wants but can't get . Since having a relationship seems nice with all the perfect things. It just doesn't appear correct. Don't forget what has to be done, and recall when it first started.

Jasper has a strong point, even if it works out. If one of you died yesterday what shall happen tomorrow.

Remember we are all corrupt in this forum, with disorganized thoughts (" An army works well in disorder- or war, if all is proper the army is in the barracks"). So remain with your goals.What do you do and your companion (for survival, work,college)?
Whilst for us its winter here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ma*spits]

This thread kinda makes me feel bad, cuz a couple years ago i did this to my current boyfriend.Things were going good, but something was holding me back, i still dont know, maybe I felt like i was missin out on things. So i backed off from him, told him I needed some space, bla bla. I know it hurt him, but he did back off, and after doin my thing for a while, i realized I wanted to be with him and that was it. So,kinda sounds like she's goin thru the same thing, if you really love her, just give her space she needs, try not callin her and see how long it takes her to call you. She'll miss you, and hopefully realize she doesnt want to jeopardize losing you.

[Mark]

Life is just fucked up sometimes. Sometimes you just don't know what to do. And sometimes it seems you just can't do anything. Just thinking and waiting and see what will happen... And maybe that's just the only solution sometimes. Just nothing and feeling fucked up...

[JASPER]

Don't be too passive. You'll end up wishing you took action earlier. If I were him I'd have dumped the broad and gotten with her 12 year old sis...

[arcane]

Originally Posted by ma*spits

This thread kinda makes me feel bad, cuz a couple years ago i did this to my current boyfriend.Things were going good, but something was holding me back, i still dont know, maybe I felt like i was missin out on things. So i backed off from him, told him I needed some space, bla bla. I know it hurt him, but he did back off, and after doin my thing for a while, i realized I wanted to be with him and that was it. So,kinda sounds like she's goin thru the same thing, if you really love her, just give her space she needs, try not callin her and see how long it takes her to call you. She'll miss you, and hopefully realize she doesnt want to jeopardize losing you.

I'm very glad to hear this - the possibility of this happening is the only reason I'm agreeing to be patient. And actually I haven't talked to her in a couple of days, which is the first time in months that that's happened, so I'm curious to see if she eventually calls or what. EDIT: By the way, how long did this go on for in your case? Weeks? Months?

Guardian - that's good advice too. I realize I have to keep perspective on things, and I think I've done a decent job of that so far. I know I'm strong on my own, and if this doesn't work out, I know I'll be fine in the scheme of things. But I do think it will be a shame if in fact I lose this.

Thanks again for all the feedback. (Jasper, I don't want to go to jail, so don't be offended if I don't take your advice.)

[Decka]

I think u shud just keep on doin what ur doin at this stage, u got some good advice now u have to use it, i hope everythin works out for you man, good luck

[arcane]

Thanks.

[GuardianOne]

Originally Posted by arcane

Thanks again for all the feedback. (Jasper, I don't want to go to jail, so don't be offended if I don't take your advice.)

That's a realistic thought of the present!!!!!!!!!

[check two]

In the meantime, don't try and think about her too much. Go and have fun at a strip club.

[Knok-A-Fella]

i got an idea for ya

Finally grow some balls and sound off like u got a pair

If she wants to play games with ya

Play some bak at her

Become a man for gods sake

Bless, 1

[arcane]

Originally Posted by Knok-A-Fella

i got an idea for ya

Finally grow some balls and sound off like u got a pair

If she wants to play games with ya

Play some bak at her

Become a man for gods sake

Bless, 1

I'm afraid it's not that easy. I wish it was though...

[Knok-A-Fella]

how is it not that simple

PLEASE TELL ME HOW ITS NOT THAT SIMPLE

BLESS, 1