What the hell should I do?

[Definitive X]

Don't do the "suspiscious husband" bit yet, just cool out for a minute...she prob'ly is sincere, just forgetful, or busy with something...but don't take this seriously if you consider the fact that I'm 15...I'm older than my age, though, namean?

[check two]

No offense man, but I feel like she could wrap you around her finger if she wanted to. Two days isn't that long of a time.

[LHX]

Originally Posted by arcane

Right now I haven't spoken to her in 2 full days... I know she's busy with stuff for a couple of days so my plan is to wait and let her call me when she feels like it.

It's actually quite amazing how long 2 days can feel, because it seems as though I haven't spoken to her forever right now. Plus this time has actually helped me get my thoughts a lot straighter I think.

Have I spoken to her friends? No - her best friend is a friend of mine as well, so it would be a bit awkward to talk to her about it. Plus I know this friend would side with my girlfriend in the event of uncertainty.

The advice I've gotten here has done wonders for my ability to be objective about things. Thanks again to all who dropped feedback.

pretend somebody got a gun to your head

you wont miss her as much

and if you aint good at pretending
then get yourself into some shit so your scared for your life

trust me
you wont miss her if you are scared for your life

PEACE

also i find eating watermelon until it feels like you are going to throw up sometimes works to get you to focus on something else

usually this does not take much more than one whole watermelon

you will be shitting pink for a day or so after tho

[arcane]

LMFAO... watermelon huh? That's some of the more interesting advice I've received.

Oh, and check two - I know what you're saying, but the significance of any particular length of time depends entirely on the relationship. In this case, the last time we went two days without talking was right when we started dating....

It's all good though - I think things are looking up.

you sound like lil b!tch hu doesnt no how to use ur cock bet she pimpin sum wea else

[arcane]

Clever post. You're intelligent.

[R3beLuTionAry]

aracane is an mc im gonna see tommorow at warped tour in S.F. but who are you??

[ARCHRIVAL]

eat her

[jaywoods27]

hey arcane go to www.becomeaplayer.com

[LHX]

from the book of the samurai:

we learn about the sayings and deeds of men of old in order to entrust ourselves to their wisdom and prevent selfishness
when we throw off our own bias
follow the sayings of the ancients
and confer with other people
matters should go well and without mishap

there was a certain man who engaged a number of his younger brothers as retainers
and whenever he visited edo or the kamigata area
he would have them accompany him
as he consulted with them everyday on both private and public matters
it is said that he was without mishap

[GuardianOne]

Originally Posted by LHX

from the book of the samurai:

we learn about the sayings and deeds of men of old in order to entrust ourselves to their wisdom and prevent selfishness
when we throw off our own bias
follow the sayings of the ancients
and confer with other people
matters should go well and without mishap

there was a certain man who engaged a number of his younger brothers as retainers
and whenever he visited edo or the kamigata area
he would have them accompany him
as he consulted with them everyday on both private and public matters
it is said that he was without mishap

Interesting isn't it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[002]

i only read the 1st post.... anyway, here's my opinion: she wants a long term relationship with you, but she's doin this to see if you're sucker enough to let her wear the pants, nahmysain....

[LHX]

arcane:

where the fuck are the updates G?

are you married yet?

PEACE

[arcane]

Yeah man, wedding was yesterday. Phew - thank goodness that's taken care of...

Haha - nah, it's going alright. With the help of the advice I received here, I've changed my outlook on the situation. I've given her all the space she can handle over the last week because I know she'll come back, and feel guilty as hell when she does - it may sound like I'm deluded, but if y'all knew the two of us you'd agree...

Already yesterday she left me a nice message unprovoked... And I haven't called her for several days - she's been calling me. It's looking like the more I stay out of her way, the less anxiety she has. It's difficult of course, but if this is what she needs in the short run, then so be it. As long as she acknowledges my patience, I'll be alright for a bit.

As for your excerpt from the book of the samurai, I agree that it has helped to confer with other people. I'm just waiting for the mishaps to subside.

P-E-A-C-E

[Prince Rai]

Originally Posted by arcane

Yeah man, wedding was yesterday. Phew - thank goodness that's taken care of...

Haha - nah, it's going alright. With the help of the advice I received here, I've changed my outlook on the situation. I've given her all the space she can handle over the last week because I know she'll come back, and feel guilty as hell when she does - it may sound like I'm deluded, but if y'all knew the two of us you'd agree...

Already yesterday she left me a nice message unprovoked... And I haven't called her for several days - she's been calling me. It's looking like the more I stay out of her way, the less anxiety she has. It's difficult of course, but if this is what she needs in the short run, then so be it. As long as she acknowledges my patience, I'll be alright for a bit.

As for your excerpt from the book of the samurai, I agree that it has helped to confer with other people. I'm just waiting for the mishaps to subside.

P-E-A-C-E

peace arcane, good news 4 sure