What is the First thing men need to know in order for them to understand women ?

[ALCATRAZ]

damn my post got buffed... fine i'll respond properly

the first thing you need to know in order for you to understand women is to NOT try to understand them... do what you do, let them do what they do... the niggaz who over analyze are the ones who don't get any trim, so don't put it on a pedastal... they make shit confusing on purpose... just be yourself

[LORD NOSE]

nah not over analyze but understand

[NIGHT MAYOR]

pussy on the pedastal

[LORD NOSE]

ok - let me be clear - the intention isn't a how to get pussy or what to do on a date type thread - we can build on that too - but understanding women is the build

[ALCATRAZ]

Originally Posted by SUNNY WINTERS

but understanding women is the build

thats what im sayin its not possible... its just one of the mysteries of the world like tha pyramids n shit... wimminz is pyramidz in 2009

[BeautiFlyB]

It's a universal truth that we women are more emotional than anything. We know this... You know this. We also know that emotions are not the most stable things to build upon. That is why we count on the men we want to provide all of things that don't mix with emotion; like safety, security, leadership. Example... People who are emotionally driven tend to do things just because they feel like it without considering consequence. This isn't always SAFE. They tend to be followers. Followers of their hearts, of other people, of the freakin wind! They don't make the best leaders. In fact they need to be led. So whoever said it was correct, we do always want things from you men. However that should work both ways. If you never wanted anything from us, "logically" you'd be gay. And nothing freaks a woman out more than a self proclaimed "man" who refuses to be one. In our eyes that makes him either a child or a fag.

[LORD NOSE]

Originally Posted by BeautiFlyB

It's a universal truth that we women are more emotional than anything. We know this... You know this. We also know that emotions are not the most stable things to build upon. That is why we count on the men we want to provide all of things that don't mix with emotion; like safety, security, leadership. Example... People who are emotionally driven tend to do things just because they feel like it without considering consequence. This isn't always SAFE. They tend to be followers. Followers of their hearts, of other people, of the freakin wind! They don't make the best leaders. In fact they need to be led. So whoever said it was correct, we do always want things from you men. However that should work both ways. If you never wanted anything from us, "logically" you'd be gay. And nothing freaks a woman out more than a self proclaimed "man" who refuses to be one. In our eyes that makes him either a child or a fag.

this is great right here

[Longbongcilvaringz]

Generalising is misunderstanding.

[Rob Swanson]

I didnt realize Sunny was making a "funny" about Pat on the initial post. good job.

[BornPower]

Originally Posted by SUNNY WINTERS

What is the First thing i need to know in order for me to understand women ?

what happened to a man knowing himself first? one cannot care for another with any assurance of success unless one can care for himself in a positive manner.
otherwise negative cycles will persist.

[LORD NOSE]

Originally Posted by .5KutSkeleton

what happened to a man knowing himself first?

a "Know Yourself First" thread is a good idea -

make one -

this one is to share an understanding on women

[ilzPotent]

Please don't listen to the sausagefest. Half these dudes play with their hands more than a real woman, let alone know how to treat them when they have them.

I will answer this when i get home...super busy.

[whers]

Originally Posted by Pat Bateman

Generalising is misunderstanding.

Exactly.

Originally Posted by .5KutSkeleton

what happened to a man knowing himself first?.

Originally Posted by SUNNY WINTERS

a "Know Yourself First" thread is a good idea -

make one -

this one is to share an understanding on women

First before what ?
He answered the question you possed-
Don't push it aside as if it's a seperate issue when his answer is related to your question.

Originally Posted by ilzPotent

Please don't listen to the sausagefest. Half these dudes play with their hands more than a real woman, let alone know how to treat them when they have them.

I will answer this when i get home...super busy.

Sunny himself said this had nothing to do with sex, but the mindset.
Your talking about taking care of a woman, he's talking about understanding them.


I'd say don't try to understand them just love them, and you should be good.
Otherwise in my experience you'll overthink things and the thread will slowly unravel.
There is no straight answer because you can't use the same formula for every woman.
I don't think you can put them all in the same box.
The same goes for men in my opinion.

[KaramelSundae]

what about women are you really trying to "understand" is my question....because its too broad of a topic to just generalize it. i mean you already know we're complicated....

Originally Posted by whers

I'd say don't try to understand them just love them, and you should be good.
Otherwise in my experience you'll overthink things and the thread will slowly unravel.
There is no straight answer because you can't use the same formula for every woman.
I don't think you can put them all in the same box.
The same goes for men in my opinion.

i agree.

or peep this:

[WARPATH]

Women want you to choke them with your penis, beat up the kitty until they can't walk, shoot enough sperm inside so that it dribbles down her leg, and hold them so they can sleep.

Problem is i'm always to fucking sweaty for the holding part. So we argue and fight.